April 27, 2020 — To The Moon and Back
04/26/2020
I’m hyper aware of the clock ticking. In ten short hours, it will be the tenth anniversary of my beloved Daddy-O’s passing…
In ten years, so much has changed. I have softened the last of my sharp edges, having transformed into the consummate grateful soul. I have gone from brunette to blonde — the original JoJo! I have just married the love of my life – one of my dad’s final wishes for me. I have let go of the soul wrenching guilt I carried for years about putting him in a home… I know he knows I did the absolute best I could. I hold my head high knowing I literally loved him to death and Sparky™ and I sang him all the way to heaven.
Sparky’s still here. A little more worn for the wear, but always my faithful companion who gives my heart a magical jolt of energy every time I look at him.
I’ve accepted the fact I will always miss and long for my dad. I will always greet the moon with “Hello, Daddy-O”, and I will always toast him whenever I pour a glass of wine and no one’s home. I know he’s with me, watching and guiding, and he undoubtedly played a magical hand in leading me to the absolute love of my life…
Thank you, Daddy-O. You’ve given me the best gifts – life and love. I will always love you to the moon and back!
I am tickled pink to know that this website continues to be viewed around the world daily! Through viewers’ posts and emails, I have learned what an immense relief it is to other caregivers to know that they’re not alone and what to expect with this complicated disease.
To offer better support and insight to caregivers throughout their ongoing journey, today we are proudly revealing our new website: www.FranklySpeakingAlz.com!
I hope that you will share and pass on this new site to others who are struggling with Alzheimer’s. A new PROBLEM/SOLUTION format imparts the priceless lessons I have learned as a caregiver. Plus, the new WEBISODE SERIES format starts at the beginning of my family’s story, revealing in much more detail the roller coaster ride that overran our lives, including footage of all my family members to demonstrate the complex dynamics of a family in turmoil.
Please know that, because there is such useful information here, I will continue to keep this Original Blog LIVE, but I will no longer be posting to it. You can always find my Original Blog at www.FranklySpeakingAlz.WordPress.com or simply by clicking the bright red ORIGINAL BLOG button on my new site!
Good luck to each of you on your journey and please stay in touch by subscribing to my new Webisode Series at www.FranklySpeakingAlz.com!
Peace and love.
~ Joleen
The famous words of my best friend, Jacquelyn Pierce, 4 long years ago. Sobbing on her couch, reeling from my dad’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis, overly consumed by the disease destroying our family, she literally SCREAMED me into action!
It took a few days, but once her words sank in, I started rolling a (borrowed) camera. I had no idea what exactly would come of it all, but since I “speak” video, I started shooting what was happening to my family and what was going on inside of me.
Fast forward 4 years and 300+ hours of footage later…
…Ladies and Gentlemen, I proudly yet humbly present to you a movie trailer of my documentary in-the-making which I hope will help change the world of Alzheimer’s…
[CLICK VIDEO FRAME BELOW TO PLAY MOVIE TRAILER]
The other amazing thing is this: I’m blogging from Washington DC!! I’ve brought my trailer, my vision and my passion to the national Alzheimer’s Association Advocacy Forum where I hope to network, get my completion funding, and take this all to the next level…
Daddy-O would be proud! 😉